Many articles say to get checked out for serious causes from this, but I've had 2 CT scans for it over the years an I'm sure something would have been found. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? i given up i dont think ever will get back to normal..its been 10 years for me! I have had numerous blood work done and for the most part they are normal. Other researchers have found that couples that utilize "you" language during conflict discussions have less effective interactions. I also use a moisturizer Gynetrof and Calendula ointment. In early 50's (appears to be late menopause as still in Peri) no period since mid-December. I saw the most horrific things. So an ultrasound and it showed a rough texture. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. Strangely sad, too. Hi, I've developed this anxiety this year about fear I'm dying. I pray and pray and pray and does not seem to matter. I read a lots try to keep my mind occupied till I get tired and I fall asleep.. No one told me about the weird anxiety, vertigo and digestive issues. My period also stopped last July, I felt alot better those months without a period, then it came back in January until March and my symptoms started again but not so bad first and second period, in March I started to get hot flashes and a period too. However, everybody can learn to use these and will benefit from non-accusatory communication. Hope yours clears up soon, it gets you down doesn't it when you don't know what the problem is xxx. These messages can have a number of benefits during communication: Feeling statements can be a way to express assertiveness without causing listeners to feel blamed, accused, defensive, or guilty. Sadness is a bit foreign to me, usually I'm happy go lucky. While it can be a bit challenging at first, you may find that this approach becomes more natural over time. And we wonder why we are all getting health anxiety! I had no idea all of this would hit after periods stopped, in postmeno. Very scared. You definitely are not alone. I certainly don't feel that now. Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. Also forcing beverages down to keep from getting dehydrated. so sick of the bloating, sickness and flatulence! i too get muscle tremors around my body, hot flashes and twitches or zapping feeling or skin crawling and the bloating and vaginal flatulence at times. Im looking forward to it! I have never had children but if i had id try to give them a heads up. I also have been fighting migraines, so painful they cause vomiting. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! Nat Commun. I've had perimenopause for the last two years. I pray for daily clarity and reminders that is hormones and it will pass. lol. Together they focus on the present activity and their feelings instead of blaming one another. NO APPETITE either. Can things get any worse? i hope we can help eachother cope. I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. It started a month ago. my latest fears are thinking i no longer love my bf and that i am attracked to women. i can totally picture myself doing this! you certainly are not alone. im on HRT patch and anti depressant but i dont think this one is working so i may need to switch. Feels like a strange sort of pressure. the rib or flank pain is scary for me. Another way to say I Feel? I have never been a "moaner". Just a suggestion. i also gained a bunch of new food allergies and intolerances because it caused my immunity to go down. It feels as im constantly running to the bathroom even at home and not much comes out. Hi Becky, sorry to hear that you're having the same problem. One thing i notice, is that dehydration can cause me to feel rather unwell. Every ache, pain I swear to God I am Googling convinces I have cancer or something and dying! It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. I saw a urologist video by a female urologist, Kelly Caperpace or something like that. the worst feeling ever. Health anxiety is the worst. shari. Don't worry about your bladder it will go away eventually. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. I tell my doctors I think the anxiety and digestive issues are hormone related but they look at me like I'm crazy.I'm looking for a new doctor who is female and post menopausal that has a clue what this stage is all about. I have that same weird head pressure. I also get rib pain on my left side only, comes and goes. i am at the end of my rope. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . I have been taking extra menopause supplements, I think they may be helping a bit. Read our editorial policy. I'm doing my best to cope. but i have had every fear under the sun. So I completely get where you are coming from. Hopefully we will all see an improvement in our symptoms soon. I feel terrible live a very healthy lifestyle and have been completely taken back by this every single day for three months. My Alp levels came back elevated for the first time ever at 128. It took a while to fall asleep but this morning I wake up and its not as bad, not sure if it's anxiety causing this. Then the rush of adrenaline.. plus panic attacks in between. I have pain in my RIGHT shoulder blade that comes and goes. But i hesitate to take the antibiotic but my pain isnt getting better i suffered almost 3 yrs wake up with bitter taste and many tummy discomforts , i start intermittent fasting eating just lunch and light food for dinner . I'd greatly appreciate hearing from you if/when convenient for an update. I also noticed I cannot tolerate chocolate anymore. with anyone else but it's like I told my doctor I felt like I had the flu and my throat just kept hurting off and on and was red , and they all chalked it up to post nasal drip , I asked if my hormones and menopause could be causing it told her I had read on this site that a lot of women were having the same issues she looked at me like I was stupid , and the rapid std test that shows results in 20 min was negative thank you Jesus , my sons are like mom you need to stop freaking out you've been checked you don't have anything but Google told me I was dying moreless and possibly had a horrible std even though my Dr's tell me if I did have I would be a lot sicker but this has all just suddenly hit me all at once within the last 6 months with the head aches and feeling moreless like flu symptoms and crap bundled all in one , I went to the er over it because my left under arm was hurting they did x-rays and said my lymph glands wasn't swelled and my blood work was fine , and I was like well why Is my throat red and why does it hurt but not hurt when I swallow and why is my armpit hurting and my upper chest off and on and why does my throat feel like it's going dry , simply it's allergies, pulled muscle , your fine just take musinex or a sinus med but here's the kicker since all of this started I'm having allergic reactions to a lot of stuff that I never had before , and my question is why does these doctors act like they've never heard of these symptoms with menopause well I'm apparently perimenopause, just turned 48 the 23 rd , so in short I wish someone would of kicked that snack in the ass and eve to for eating that stupid apple she cursed us all because she didn't listen to God's commandments , but I guess I cant be mad at her when I fell him daily to , I'm just so over all of this ughh , hope you feel better soon . Registered in England and Wales. These are my symptoms, and the past 10 days have been the worstHowever in under a month I would have reached a year without a period. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. I am always telling my husband i don't want to be alone. I am having the same shoulder neck and ear pain. I am 67 and started these symptoms in April after my doctor and I determined that it was not a good idea to still be on HRT at my age. My daughter was involved in a fatal car accident in January. Last night I had a few panic attacks and my chest felt like I'm wheezing, my jaw and neck felt painful. i have similar issues i have sibo and low iron i found out by seeing an integrative doctor she ordered antibiotics for the sibo and said after taking it i will be a diffrent person but when i read the side effect of the med im scared to take it the reaction with covid vaccine my body is so senstive to meds . I fell on my tailbone when I was a teenager REALLY hard and I was warned this might catch up to me and boy it did. All the best x. I was also of the opinion that I will die home alone and no one will find me! It can be helpful to look at how feeling statements might be utilized in communication. i feel alive scoreganics | 50827. post-template-default,single,single-post,postid-50827,single-format-standard,theme-capri,qode-core-2.1.1,select-core-2.1.1,woocommerce-no-js,ajax_fade,page_not_loaded,,capri-ver-3.3, vertical_menu_with_scroll,smooth_scroll,fade_push_text_top,paspartu_enabled,woocommerce_installed,blog_installed,wpb-js-composer . My new found thing (and it seems like something new or nagging every damn day) is my head feels all fuzzy! I realize this was posted months ago but I'm hoping there are still others out there that can relate i feel as if this perimenooause is breaking me i literally feel as if I'm dying from nausea the moment i wake up to constant anxiety and panic attacks, jelly legs etc its horrible and so overwhelming I don't recognize myself I used to be such a practical thinking person. I dont want to use HRT. I hope that reassures you a bit. I don't have a cold or asthma. I am afraid to ask. This is the worst fear that I could imagine and my PTSD was pretty bad but I don't compare it because at least I understood what caused it. This solution may not be a real optionbut does allow for discussion. Its only supposed to be 39-115. Perhaps her ideas were sought as well as the other persons and together they made a plan. I am the caretaker in my house. plus some strange behavior where I'd look back and think, WHY did I do that? I-messages can vary in terms of how they are formed and utilized, and they don't necessarily need to begin with the words, "I feel." When you say you know the feeling, do you feel really rotten too? The idea of "I statements" was introduced during the 1960s by psychologist Thomas Gordon as a way to help children learn to connect emotions with behaviors during play therapy. Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. Both Susan and Karen are experiencing the same situation and feeling, but Karen uses a feeling statement, while Susan does not. Everything gynecological has changed, it feels different. The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation. I just want to feel a bit normal with a good night sleep. im new here and cant figure out how to use this forum properly but i have the shoulder blade pain which caused me to have neck surgery to get rid of it. Hello Sasical hope this email finds you well . By clicking Accept All Cookies, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts. Use of the forums is subject to our Terms of Use For example, the speaker in the previous example might say, "I feel sad that I have to do this alone. Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? Verywell Mind's content is for informational and educational purposes only. Im not happy for anyones suffering but happy to have met you awesome ladies who have validated exactly what I experience. I've had my blood, urine, fecal checked --- all have come out normal. 'I feel' statements can be contrasted with 'you' statements, which are more confrontational and place the blame directly on the listener. Research also suggests that this approach can be helpful when communicating with others: Some settings where I-messages are frequently utilized include: This technique is frequently used in couples therapy to help improve communication in romantic relationships. My doctors say they fodt worry about my levels unless it was 3 times higher. I started having stabbing (like almost electric shock pains) just above my pelvis bone. 7th ed. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. Does this sound familiar. My biggest things now (and some days are almost debilitating) are extreme exhaustion and the other thing I am having a REALLY hard time with is the nausea. I've had it all my life, but it's really flared up now with the perimenopause. She will be ok but it's going to be a long drawn out legal battle as the driver fled and his best friend died. It seems to hit like every 3 months and last for about a week (which seems like a year)! I am post menopause. ", "I feel sad when it seems like my feelings are not taken seriously.". Hopefully in a few years we will feel back to a new normal. We sound like sisters from another mister (lol). So i was googling pretty much what causes elevated sed rate and alp rates. i just got home from the er where all my tests were normal. have you ever been given an explanation? You are going to laugh about the shoulder blade/throat and ear pain. Came upon this thread while googling my symptoms. The GP says my eustachian tubes are retracted but no matter how much steroid nasal spray I use, the pressure is there. I have had every test you can think of as well and feel the same as you. Thanks! kadija. I'm now in battle to keep weight on. Now we have COVID! Today I felt normal! Doesn't really make me feel better as it's easy to think something was growing and wasn't yet visible to themthe mind gamesmy only ray of hope is that it has been less noticeable sometimes so i figure that wouldn't happen if it was a progressive disease. they reassured me they are fine and this too shall pass. Then there are times when i do not want anything. It occured to me when I had a bout of yeast infections that would not go away without diflucan for about three months, but the feeling when I knew I had a yeast infection was bladder discomfort like Interstitial Cystitis. vaginal flatulence! But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. My doctors tell me everything is fine as i have had normal CT scans and normal gyn ultrasounds. Because of terrible hot flashes I went on HRT about six years after menopause and after a bit the urinary problems returned. I am mentally, physically and emotionally drained to say the least. Hoping it ends soon..sending you lots of hugs xx. So weird. I feel the same have so many peri menopausal symptoms , im in a constant pain days in days out . Hope to hear back from you to see if you ever dealt with the reflux and difficulty burping. I really hope everyone feels better soon! feel better and welcome to write anytime you like xoxo. Try our Symptom Checker Got any other symptoms? i feel like i am slowly dying and even tho all my tests come back normal ( and i havr had a lot ) that they are missing something thats gonna kill me. i am glad to say while they can still come, they are at least frequent. mine went on for ages too then all of a sudden just stopped. hello, wow you seem to have a lot of the same problems I have I think theyre digestive anyway theyre in my stomach and in my back and on my sides and they move around a lot but it really hurts mainly on my right side the most and Im really scared theres something wrong!!! Are you having any other symptom besides the pressure in bladder? I hope you are all save out there. My husband and I work very closely in our jobs ,and so we can navigate times when I need to flop, however , sometimes we are called to try and carry on because of who we are in our jobs. WHY did I say that? Families are also prone to communication problems that can interfere with the family dynamic and lead to conflict within the family unit. Sometimes constipated, sometimes diarrhea. I too feel like I'm slowly dying. I am supposed to see a rheumatologist on Feb 14. Ill be 56 in August.April 15 2019 was my last period. Afraid that my insurance would deny the payment of the colonoscopy after I had it done (no prior authorization needed and I am not 50 or older), I decided to wait my symptoms out and sure enough, they have improved. It just feels like its never going to end! Yes i pretend all is well, i dont speak about the extent of my situation as most people think you are over reacting, because when they look at you physically you are ok, but its inside thats suffering. i cant sleep, eat or go on with my daily responsibilities..the tension headaches are so bad the past week!! We are in this together ladies! hope we all do . Im scared at nights as well, I had a panic attack the other night, I was so scared!! im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . Peri and meno didn't get me, postmeno is what's killing me. but my health anxiety is through the roof and I keep thinking there has to be something wrong with me but they just haven't found it yet, aw bless you i know the feeling, are you taking iron? I have always been bubbly and positive. I was having hormonal issues then. I suffer terrible medical anxiety so understand what you are going through. Our website is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Ill be around the boards. YES, I am postmenopausal too, been a year and a half since my last period. Spoke too soon! i have horrible nausea on and off all day everyday and no appetite!! I've tried my hardest not to Google symptoms because of course everything points to cancer (my biggest fear). I have no appetite, nausea, dry mouth, incredibly fatigued - tired, headaches, occasional hot flashes, night sweats, etc.. Fighting to keep weight on via force feeding myself. Now awful riots and my niece is a police officer in Milwaukee and the things she tells and sends me are down right frightening so I think with all I am sure the stress is not helping. By using "I feel" statements, couples can focus their communication on what they are feeling rather than assigning blame and making their arguments worse. Nausea a constant now. One reason "I feel" statements might help defuse conflict is a phenomenon known as the norm of reciprocity. I have these symptoms and more and still have periods, but I hold hope and I truly believe what we eat/consume has a lot to do with it and also our need to look after our own mental health during this process. I will be fine for a few weeks and out of the blue I feel like I have a knot in my upper stomach and feel like throwing up. I have another appointment in March with another doctor in the same practice and will ask her about my lining and if everything is ok now. Maybe I do but i still should be heard by them even if im wrong about my health. NO appetite, food sits at top of stomach, can just nibble, losing a lb. Insomnia. I'm working with two therapists and a behavioral specialist to help me out of this. Dr. ruled out ear infection. Anyway she says to throw away the applicator to the vaginal estrogen. i have been post menopause since 2015. Still have anxiety through the roof. i had the same fear about dying and losing my parents and it eventually got better and went away. Put a little on your finger. This was my first perimenopause symptom. Half of what i see is so inaccurate. I cant winlol! Looking back I am pretty sure I am 8 months into it but symptoms are getting worse. Meticulously curated television underscore. I had lots of tests all came back negative. Worst day of my life. "I feel stressed out when the house is so disorganized. They put it down to diverticulitis, which of course can cause digestive issues too. Just want a sprinkle of myself back so I can enjoy life (which is hard to do with this COVID political mess) again ya know? A feeling statement keeps the focus on the feeling of the speaker which is less likely to elicit a defensive reaction and more likely to promote effective communication. i have been turning to God also. sadly the pain remains. Dry mouth and burning tongue make it really hard to eat so I am losing weight. when i do deep breathing to try and relieve the anxiety it causes I feel a heaviness in my chest. By placing the attention primarily on the feelings and needs of the speaker, it focuses the conversation on solving a problem rather than assigning blame. Well i dont want my levels any higher. Before you go through menopause you just expect to have hot flashes and the other standard side effects. Youre right: googling is dangerous! at times i will feel the ache in my left side. Moderator comment: I have removed the contact details as we do not publish these in the forums. For example, a person might say something like, "I feel like you don't care." While this statement starts with an expression of how the speaker feels, it concludes with an accusation. I tried Cymbalta but again i googled as was terrified at some of the reviews. When i had bloodwork again in August, 2019 i found out it was elevated. Thank you for your suggestions , I got the antibiotics but i did some research some say the SIBO came back others with so many side effects so i was scared not knowing what would be the outcome now its expired , so i had to request for a refill with the holistic doctor since i didnt go back to see her for a year she recommends to see me which will be 100% out of pocket pay-for visit i almost spent $1,500-2,000 for follow up visits and private lab works . It happened twice. My stomach has been the worst acid reflux, bloating and major heartburn had an endoscopy too. So it must be this menopause making some of us lose control on ourselves. Uggh.. it is really getting to me. I dont have too much longer, God willing! April 15, 2020 will hopefully be my new day! has anyone else felt this and any relief or diagnosis? I apparently have fatty liver but ALP levels arent singularly raised. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . Unfortunately i noticed changes in my body and went on line to look for answers. I so hate that this happening!!! stay safe xoxoxo. I had a biopsy and it wasnt bad at all. Because docs dont have personalized answers so we go to Dr Google where EVERYTHING is cancer. Going through meno is awful! By Erin Johnston, LCSW I have my faith and i know i would be in so much worse shape without Him in my life and have done plenty of praying. No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! I hope you feel better but at least you know you aren't alone. May be an avenue to explore if all tests have come back fine. I hope things get better for all of us. What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. All of a sudden I had almost every one of the perimenapause symptoms. Waking up after 3 hrs of sleep in complete panic. The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for anonymous statistical purposes. My head hurts all the way down through my neck! have you had any tests? Mornings with my coffee are terrible (piddling every 15 minutes). Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. If you ever need to talk, I am here. I then drove back home and quietly went to bed. yes I'm the same. I was OK with my single life. do you act like everything is fine when your kids call? Eventually you have to come off both. I know what you mean about chocolate I drank a choc shake the other day and I had horrible refux. doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. I feel ______. It's frightening and debilitatingthe crying, the anxiousness coursing through me, the nausea, the panic attacks all night long. Hi Mary, sorry youre going through this as well I do have other symptoms like digestive issues, sore breasts, joint issues, itching under my skin, and constipation too. I ache all over as well and have had so many stomach issues. I am not bleeding, no heart burn, not bloated, not gaining or losing any weight just the occasional nausea which has been going on for years. I have prostate problemslol! Um, i dont think so. I've so been there. It allows the speaker to express control and ownership of their emotions without directly accusing the other person of being at fault. This can often help the person who is receiving the feedback feel less criticized and more open to making changes. This has topped me off as well as extremely heavy periods which last for days! Then COVID. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. 2018;9(1):2474. doi:10.1038/s41467-018-04925-y, Rogers SL, Howieson J, Neame C. I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict. The technical storage or access is required to create user profiles to send advertising, or to track the user on a website or across several websites for similar marketing purposes. I get rib pain, ache in my left side, always the left for me, really painful at times then goesI put it down to trapped gas, which at first I didn't believe as it was so sore, I thought it must be something more serious, but its been going on for so long now and I have had various testsI have had polyps, but they said that shouldn't cause the pain, they were detected when I started bleeding slightly after not having a period for over a year. I am taking a natural supplement for perimenopause but don't know if it's helping. i did speak to a therapist about it which really helped and i told my parents. I am so relieved to have found your post. Have you ever had difficulty burping? My main concern right now is this bladder pressure. The pain in my throat and ears of all things was TONSIL STONES! yesss. dissapointed on the ulcer however as thought would be/provide remedy for resolve. Lately most days are spent thinking I'm dying from dome form of cancer. 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